Happiness isn’t that what people spend a life time attempting to achieve? So my question is why is happiness so hard to achieve? or is it that we look for happiness in all the wrong place in hope that someone else will be solely responsible for another’s joy I feel that in order to be happy and achieve happiness in life you must be happy with yourself first. Everyone should take time in life to throw all the excess emotional baggage aside and learn to center yourself in mind-body and spirit. know yourself be comfortable with your own company before you expect someone else to be happy in it. Once you know what you really want the rest will come with good judgement and an open heart happiness will find its way to you like a moth to a flame but you have to let go and trust yourself.